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Hi everyone, I've been struggling with really bad anxiety when it comes to trying to create relationships surrounding kink.

I have no physical experience with another person, so anything physical sounds extremely nerve wracking. It's been preventing me from reaching out to others that I'm interested in.

Others who have experienced this anxiety or maybe just anxiety surrounding relationships and kink in general, what are some things that have helped?

I think you're always going to be anxious if you havent done it before. Its helpful if you tell the person you're getting freaky with that its your first time. If they're worth your time they'll understand.

I can't speak for romantic relationships though as aromantic person.

I agree with this. The right person will understand.